Sometimes in our life it happens when our partner become so important for us and we don't want to loose him at any cost. We have lots of expectations from him, and if does not fulfill our expectations, we become sad. Also we cannot tolerate his ignorance. We should not become possessive about him, as it may irritate him sometimes. Just give him freedom and space, he will realize your importance and will come back to you.
First thing if we have expectations from him, definitely it will hurt us if he did not live up to the expectations. Basic rule to be happy is expect a little and give a lot. Don't chase people too much, otherwise you will loose your importance in their life.
Never ever allow EGO to come in your relationship. It will spoil your whole life and you will not get anything out of it. Learn to differentiate between ego and self respect. One should not loose their self respect otherwise you will loose your importance.
Sometimes if you feel your partner is getting angry, be cool at the time so that when he will cool down, you both can have discussion and sort the things around.
Let me tell you one thing To have unnecessary EGO in your life, will not get you anything in life. If you end ego, you will have a very happy healthy life ahead.
Your spouse is the biggest blessings for you given by god.
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